Blogs & Cliques
yikes. things are getting rough around here. I made comments about the last issue that seemed to erupt but wow.
personal attacks seem unwarranted and silly. I’m not attacking anyone here although I’m afraid I might seem to be … I just think we should all consider what’s being said before posting. we get upset, yes. but, remember we all fall… we all make stupid decisions and most of all.. in these times we need support.
The talk of “blog drama” and “cliques” makes me sad… it hurts to the core. It makes me wonder… am I in a clique? No, I don’t think so… but.. why are there cliques at all??
this place is about support, and support alone.. so work on providing support. we’re all at different stages. some of us are strong, some of us are weak, and try to recognize where you are and where this person is, and what kind of support they need.
each journey is different but at the same time, the same.
i dont like all of this cliquish stuff. i think that certain things were taken out of context and taken too personally. dont worry about being classified as being in a clique. if people are worried that they are not “as accepted” its not because they arent. its becuse there are HUNDREDS of people on this site, and its entirely too impossible to stay in contact with everyone, let alone the people that hardly blog/comment/booster or are on the teams.
thats the way i feel about it.
Way too much drama lately. I try to stay out of it.
I always thought that if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all. I live by that. Can’t teach my daughter to do it if I don’t.
When I read a blog I comment on the things I can be supportive about. If I don’t agree, I leave it be.
No one will ever agree 100% with all the things someones else does. We are all individuals.
I love this site and many of the people here.
I agree. I hate the drama. LOL i come here to get away from it all!
I know that it might seem that there are certain cliques here, but I think there are people who are just more supportive than others. Thats all. When you give support, you get support back. Thats the way i think it works here, and thats the way the real world works!
Overall, I’m really happy I found this site.
Have a great day everyone!
I don’t like all the drama either. I missed it but read all the blogs later. I just don’t understand why people complain about other peoples blogs at all. You don’t like, don’t read it. You want support you have to give support. You want friends, reach out…. it’s so easy. Drama is way to much work….
((HUGS))
Love you all
Love you all too. These are our journals and we need to feel we can say what is on our hearts and not cut each other down. I agree, we do not need drama.
Well I am glad I missed the drama.
Sorry to hear it got bad around here for awhile. Hopefully things have calmed down.