The Heartbreakers are dying. I don’t even know if I’m going to call us the Heartbreakin’ Rockstars anymore since I think there’s maybe 2 Rockstars still posting? Really? Did the merger just give everyone an opportunity to bail? I don’t understand…
Anyways, I’m not going to give up, if for no other reason than for April. I really miss that girly (for those of you who don’t know, April originally started The Hearbreakers but had to leave because of her father falling ill). I love this group and I love the women there. Each group– the Wildcats, fitness fanatics, and heartbreakers have a different “feel”. I love the feel of our group…and this feel really has nothing to do with how active you are.
I know everyone wants to jump into the Wildcats, after all they are an incredibly active group. Heck, I did to. But I bailed. It didn’t feel right. I joined the Heartbreakers with the friends I’d grown to love already–April, Sandy, Julie, Annie. We really are a family. Now, I urge anyone who is joining a group to make sure that it feels right for you. I *know* more people would join the heartbreakers if you just gave us a chance.. and didn’t leave buddyslim after a week. Stick around, put in some effort, and you’ll appreciate that you did.
Likewise don’t be a challenge junkie. I am. I actually think I’m going to stop worrying about all other groups except for The Hearbreakers and Onederland platoon — maybe FAB, I’ve to think about my commmitments. If you become a challenge junkie, you don’t have the time to commit to all your teams– and this causes less participation from you, and as in the Heartbreakers case, everyone starts participating less and it dies out. Find something you want to do, and stick with it, nuture and love it, like a plant, rather than having multiple plants and letting their leaves brown and wither. You have to think about these things mroe than some of us do– including myself.
If you’re in the forums, post. Don’t just read it and close the window– that makes you part of the problem. Again, I’m guilty of this as well, and it’s going to stop. Period.
Sorry if I seemed harsh but I am extremely upset by this. This is the second group I’ve been a part of that’s been dying this year (the other completely died). So, step it up or don’t.. Just know you can help.
On a different note if anyone would like to join us, check us out.
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